Where Have All the Children Gone?
by Sharon Graham · Filed Under: Health & Wellness · Miscellaneous
“I like to play indoors better ’cause that’s where all the electrical outlets are.” A fourth-grader quoted in Last Child in the Woods
Think back to when you were a child growing up…what were some of your favorite things to do outside?
And the streets of the city will be filled with boys and girls at play. (Zech. 8:5;NLT)
I recently saw a Facebook entry from one of my young friends saying, “Why do I have to force my son to go outside and play?” Jerry and I live in a nice neighborhood with wide streets. I’ve often commented that we rarely hear the delightful sounds of children at play. Where are the children? Today’s quote from a fourth grader represents the sad state of affairs with our children.
Children are growing up without the joys of climbing a tree, building a fort, catching lightning bugs, and falling into bed at night totally tuckered out from the raucous activities of spending hours on end in the great outdoors. Growing up on a farm found me outside from morning till night. My mother (sorry to say), would have to beg, cajole, and yell at me to help with indoor chores. Who wanted to clean the bathroom when you could be outside riding horses, playing ball, or exploring the woods?
Numerous studies indicate that problems such as obesity, depression, and ADHD improve when kids are exposed to the outdoors and nature. Cornell University researchers found that children with ready access to nature handled stress more successfully. Nature’s regenerative effects can be observed in all children.
I discovered an interesting link where author Carl Pope says, “No wonder that our kids are disconnected and alienated from the natural world, when adults have decided that most places outside the car and the home are dangerous and that every hour needs to be scripted. It’s rarer and rarer for kids to have access to fields or streams or woodlots or even decent city parks, so instead of joyfully mucking about outside they’re offered a physically safe world of video games and television. As a result, nature and place are losing out to the virtual world. Who needs mud puddles when your computer can provide you with dozens of imaginary planets full of gory combat with scary monsters?”
Reflect back on the joys of your “days in the sun” while growing up. What can you do as a parent and grandparent to have the children in your life engage in regular, outdoor activities rather than having them sit in front of a computer screen or TV for hours on end?
Prayer Power
Father, we are so grateful for children and we are so thankful to You for the wonderful outdoors that You have created for us to enjoy.
Link of the Day
The Forgotten Family Value – playing outside
Blessings on you as you look for ways to get the children outdoors.
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Thank you! I see it everyday. As a mom of a 3 year old, it can be hard to find other children to have my son play with at the playground.
Heck – I even pulled him out of preschool because all they wanted them to do was to sit and be still indoor for hours of time on a beautiful day at 3. Kids need to play, get dirty and learn to climb a tree.
Samantha
Samantha, thank you for your comment. And I commend you for being proactive about keeping your son busy OUTDOORS and not inside! Way to go! Blessings, Sharon
As a grandmother of two feisty boys, 10 and 12, I have to look for outdoor activities when we’re together. The dwelling place is not built strong enough for their level of play.(LOL) I refuse to have them sit in front of the computer or play videos all day. So we actually still go to the park, where they run and yell and wrestle and play basketball and “get tuckered out”. I can see and hear them from where I sit.
Dear Grandmother Paula! Good for you. Your grandsons are indeed blessed to have such a loving, caring grandmother who is willing to do what is necessary to get her grandsons outdoors! Blessings, Sharon
Sad, but true. I was one of those kids who was ran through tall grass simply for the joy of the calling. I’d play ball in the streets or the vacant lot until the street lights came on or mom hollered from the front door. I rode my bike through the trails, and got dad’s tools out to “tinker.” It wasn’t difficult to gather 8 others for a game of baseball, or basketball. When I spent 8 years in the classroom as a an elementary classroom teacher, I noticed that for the most part this was a lost way of life.